Are my lips moving?

Here’s a mystery I have been thinking about for years, unable to solve it. Ready? Here it comes:

Love and effection

I’ve never (before) said this out loud for the fear of sounding inadequate, but … can somebody listen to the guy and read the tickers at the same time? I really can’t. I can read the tickers, but then I can’t really listen to the person speaking, and vice versa. (And yes, I might not be able to hear or see anything but the typo on that shot but that’s another blog entry).

But now, reading the magnificent Traffic: why we drive the way we do (and what it says about us) by Tom Vanderbilt, I feel liberated.

Disclaimer: the only time I can read one thing, and listen to somebody else, is when I’m reading a book/morning paper, and my wife says something to me – like last night when I read this paragraph:

We are led to believe that this is how people now process information, as if we are suddenly genetically programmed to multitask. Studies have shown, however, that the more information there is on the screen, the less we actually remember.

It’s interesting, though, when I was a kid, I took great pride in my ability to concentrate on a book and block the rest of the world, not hearing anything, or anybody.

I don’t seem to be able to do it anymore. My son is, though.

Stockholm

Today, as I was driving towards downtown Stockholm, and admiring the Old Town skyline, two thoughts entered my brain at the same time. Maybe three.

One, I was thinking that I have to tell my wife that Gamla Stan, the Old Town, is really beautiful and that we should probably move there.

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Two, I was wondering why I always have to tell people where I was when I was thinking about something. It’s not that important, or even unusual that I think.

And three – and I just realize I’m listing the thoughts in reverse order, because this was the one I was thinking about as I was admiring the Old town – I was wondering if my children, one part Finnish, one part Swedish, will grow up to be Swedish, or Stockholmian first (and whether most people identify with the city first, and country second).

And naturally, I was thinking about that because I, born Finnish in Helsinki, am starting to feel at home in Stockholm. This city is Sweden to me. I don’t feel particularly Swedish, but a Stockholmian? Yes. In the last six months, I’ve found myself hesitating when people ask me where I come from. “Well, I came here from Stockholm, but I’m a Finn” is my standard line.

I get to pick and choose.

Kids in America

OK, so all the hockey players I write about are younger than me. (Not all of them, just the ones still playing). I read somewhere that there are only three players born in the 1960s in the Finnish league. And only one Chris Chelios in the NHL.

But, the next American president will still be older than me.